Shake up your life: how to change your own perspective.

By: Lheo Baez

01/02/2019

I thought I had it all together with my finances, my relationship with my family and friends, my behavior and everything else I thought I excelled in. But one day while I was on my way to work, I realized just how unpleasant I have been. It led me to think about changing my ways. I was exhausted emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually.

At that moment, I had a reality check. I wasn’t the person whom I wanted to be, I didn’t have the life I want and I am not the person I am meant to be. I said to myself, “you really suck as a person, you really do and you need to change you.” It hit me hard hearing myself say it but I am glad I did because change starts when you admit and accept your mistakes. I wasn’t trying to condemn myself (of course not!). I simply wanted to change my life and be better. Just like in financial abundance, you need to determine your financial pain(s) before you can move on to financial abundance. That pain will be your drive to success (but I will go in depth about what I learned in financial abundance in another blog. I am honestly not quite there yet.)

Admitting and accepting those flaws gave me the motivation to take charge of myself to be a better person and a good role model to my little girl. Here are some tips:

1. Stop comparing yourself to others

I know, I know! We hear this a lot but do we really do it? Insecurities kick in when we see people posting on social media about their travels, fitness, bodies, jobs, successes, cars, clothes and just about anything and everything about their lives. How about not letting ourselves compare and compete?

Instead, learn about their certainties and apply it to yourself and maybe get inspired and be motivated to work harder?

2. Focus

We live in a world full of distractions. As much as possible, avoid multi-tasking and learn to

prioritize. Get one done and move on to the next one. Also, let’s not procrastinate and put off doing things because the to-do list will keep getting longer. Do it today so that tomorrow you will be free to spend quality time with family and do fun things.

3. Practice and have a heart full of gratitude

When you appreciate the little things you have or what is in front of you, you feel the sense of joy and your brain will switch to being wealthy. Yes, growing up I was taught to be grateful but didn’t realize how powerful the word “gratitude” was until my two- year old uttered the word, “Thank you.” She says thank you to everything she hears, sees and touches. For example, she’ll hear fireworks and she'll excitedly says, “Thank you, fireworks!” I will never forget the look on her face as she spoke those words. She was filled with happiness. That is the kind of heart we should possess. A heart full gratitude.

4. Know and be yourself

Remember it starts when you accept and admit. Quit trying to be someone you are not because it is exhausting. Be true to yourself! You are unique, you are beautiful and perfect just the way you are!

5. Don’t waste your energy

Prioritize your time and energy with what’s important. If it doesn’t make you happy and it seems like it will have a negative impact on you, don’t entertain it. Move on to better things.

6. Declutter your mind

It starts when you stop thinking negative thoughts. Start feeding yourself with positive thoughts and what you want to achieve as a person. Have an attitude of POSITIVITY and POSSIBILITIES. Always keep moving forward never backward.

7. Hold your horses

Stop trying to do things at full speed. Slow down. Relax and take a breath. When given the chance, prop up your feet and drink a glass of wine! Don’t forget to celebrate every success whether it be big or small. It matters!

8. Have a to-do list

Plan your day ahead by simply jotting it down. I am the type of person who likes to write everything down. I feel a sense of accomplishment when I see things checked off on my list. There are different ways to get things accomplished. Find what works for you.

9. Accountability

Own up to whatever choices, decisions and actions you make in your life. Be a leader to yourself first before you can lead others. Don’t hide behind excuses after excuses. Admit when you’re wrong. Apologize. Remember, the truth will set you free!

10. Set goals with good intentions

Having a goal with good intentions produces a healthy mindset. Intentions will set the standard on how you live and act. Don’t take the easy way out. Work harder for what you want. Always remember, if it is easy it will not last.

11. Pray and Trust

Know that you are not fully in control of yourself. Pray to the One who can transform your heart, mind, and soul. Regardless of who you are and what you have done in the past, know that you are always loved. Trust the process. A greater calling awaits.

Don’t let fear take over. Accept who you are and if there is an area you feel you need to work on, take the step. Live the life you want, in the way that is right.

Be motivated and be willing to change!

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